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Two parallel universes

October 20, 2022 at 11:52 am, No comments


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Beyond intimacy and nesting, the boundaries of the couple will adapt to two parallel universes:

- The first universe is of emotion, it is that of childhood, its integrating center is the cerebral amygdala, it requires security, calm, listening, empathy, landmarks allowing the anticipation of care and desires. He is spontaneous, adaptive, curious, explorer, he is interdependent of the other to be shared and therefore reassuring.

- The second universe is rational, it is that of adults, its integrating center is the cerebral hippocampus, it requires an objective, memory, calculations, habits, efficiency, perseverance, although individual, it is shared in the development of the couple.

These universes remain parallel, without crossing it, they constantly exchange through particular relationships that are expressed in art.

Art is a set of techniques that allows the transfer of emotions.

Emotion is before action it is at the center of the universe of childhood, it is at the origin of everything, its energy is potential, it is articulated on the four pillars of Socrates' wisdom.

Action is at the center of the adult universe, it is the purpose of everything, its energy is dynamic, it is articulated in free will.

These universes are known to us because we were all children, they build us, structure us, but we mix them without distinguishing them.

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